Since everyone talks about Lesty dan Bilar, gue cuma bisa bilang do not ever romanticise abusive men, walaupun kita sebagai perempuan kadang antara sayang sama dongo itu beda tipis ya..tapi menurut gue ketika seorang laki-laki udah berani main fisik sampai si perempuan babak belur apalagi itu istrinya sendiri.. itu udah sakit sih.
Terlebih berkeliaran di fyp Tiktok tentang hal ini, dan gue baru tau kalau banyak.. sekali lagi gue ulang, banyak bangeeet yang mengalami hal seperti ini sampe gue no words, meanwhile our generation is now romancing the toxic masculinity. How the fuck is an abusive boyfriend a pride? How are bruises found ornamental? Why do women pretend to enjoy physical abuse so much? abusive relationships are so common in our society that people think it is normal?
Abusers like to isolate the victim from their family and friends, so that they're easier to control, dan si korban akan merasa bersalah ketika gak ngikutin kemauan si abuser ini atau pergi dengan orang lain selain dia. Please, understand the kind of pain he's putting you through, the kind of trauma? the kind of depression you will go into once this is all over? oh right, he is going to leave you.
its a very sad and unfortunate position to be in, we're all know that people go blind when they're in love, tp pls dimengerti bahwa you're no one's slave, you have a life and that's noone business, seek help if you need. Talk to your family, your friends, get help.
